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DON’T DIE WITH YOUR DEAD

DON’T DIE WITH YOUR DEAD

by | Nov 17, 2025 | Mad Musings, philosophy-religion

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Did you know that when you cry for your dead, you cry for you and not them?

You cry because you “lost them” because you don’t HAVE THEM by your side. You think it all ends in death. And you think they are NOT anymore.

So if your dead are gone, where are they?.

Yes they have left, or they are now in another place, Is that place better than this?.

Yes, definitely that place is better than this; so Why do you suffer for their departure?.

When you have finished accepting that they are no longer “NOT here”, but they are still in another place even better than this, for there where they are no longer sick, or suffering.

Then you’ll stop mourning them and you’ll get them back in memory so they keep accompanying you with the joy of all that you’ve lived.

If you truly loved them LOVE them AGAIN and this time with greater strength, greater purity, with greater delivery.

Today, there will be no more reproach of any kind.

Only LOVE will be the essence between you, between us, and between them.

I respect your pain and the way you express it. I know you cry and you will cry without comfort.

How to be kinder to yourself

How to be kinder to yourself

by | Aug 18, 2022 | Health-Wellness-Sex

Learn to identify self-criticism If you’re like many people, your self-criticism has become a deeply ingrained habit – it’s so automatic, you might not even realise you’re doing it.Yet recognising that you’ve fallen into self-criticism is the crucial first step in saving yourself from it and practising more self-compassion. As the psychiatrist Daniel Siegel puts it: ‘Name it to tame it.’ This step involves asking yourself questions that can help you understand your self-critical tendencies, rather than a

Source: How to be kinder to yourself | Psyche Guides

How to empower a teen with ADHD

How to empower a teen with ADHD

by | Jul 24, 2022 | Health-Wellness-Sex

The only thing that helps me focus is if I’m genuinely interested in what I’m doing.’ Sitting across my desk was Celia, a first-year undergraduate diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), who had attended my university’s ADHD summer camp when she was in middle school. As we caught up on the past five years of her life, she described how she’d felt unmotivated throughout her high-school years. Celia recalled her parents’ attempts to coax her interest in conventional subjects, such as mathematics and literature, without success. Looking down at her shoes, she described feeling left out and demoralized during her final year of high school when each of her friends had celebrated acceptances to rigorous universities.

There’s no doubt that adolescence can be incredibly challenging for girls and boys like Celia who have ADHD but, with sufficient support, they can thrive – as you’ll see when I return to Celia’s story later in this Guide.

Source: How to empower a teen with ADHD

Break-up Story

Break-up Story

by | Jul 17, 2022 | Inspiration, Reflections

Married or not you should read this…

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

Source: https://funnnyfunny.com/break-up-story/

My Comments:  Did not expect the ending.  Good stuff.

How to set yourself free with ritual

How to set yourself free with ritual

by | Jun 20, 2022 | Health-Wellness-Sex

When I first read Confucius, I was disappointed. He seemed like

a stick-in-the-mud, obsessed with enforcing the status quo. ‘As for music,’ he grumped to his disciples, ‘listen only to Shao and Wu. Prohibit the tunes of Zheng.’

This was the great sage of ancient China, who wandered the country lecturing disciples and rulers on how to live? Maybe his approach worked 2,500 years ago. But for me, in the 21st century? I preferred living freely like the iconoclastic Daoist sages who mocked Confucius.

Source: How to set yourself free with ritual | Psyche Guides